RELIGIOUS BELIEF MAKES HATRED MORE FIERCE
Hate is the urge to hurt another person just because you want to see them hurt.
Most who discourage hate argue that it is to be avoided for it gets too easily
out of control and your perception gets distorted more and more all the time as
it becomes a habit. Your view of others becomes polluted and bitter. Most people
see hate as a Pandora's Box and this is their main reason to oppose hate. Such a
view suggests that hate is not bad in itself as long as it can be kept within
boundaries. This makes you suspicious of those who claim to believe in hating
the sin and loving the sinner - they are trying to smugly hide their hate and
are examples of passive aggressive hate. And there are people who seem - who
seem! a seem does not amount to an are! - capable of restraining hate.
Incredibly, religion claims to be good while it makes the desire to hurt sin or
hurt people far more fierce.
God is supposed to be the only perfectly and absolutely good being. He
supposedly made us and it is our duty to him as our maker to obey him.
Disobedience to God is called sin. God will judge sin if he is fair.
God expects us to obey his moral code. A moral code is based on the idea that
must do good or suffer punishment. A moral rule is not a rule at all unless it
compels through the threat of punishment for disobedience.
The good person is like a moral person but the two are not the same. The good
person may be totally anti-punishment. The moral person has to believe in
punishment.
Nobody likes moralisers. Yet they have been fooled by Christianity to worship
one! Strange world!
Christians say that if you do not love your neighbour who you see then you do
not love the God you cannot see. If you say you do then you are a liar. But this
presupposes that you have to obey God to love him. But what about wives who do
not obey their husbands and who undoubtedly love them? The love of God is about
control thus it is a nasty and abusive love. Like the love a brute uses to
manipulate his wife. If God's love is to be praised then hate is not wrong. The
Christian faith slanders the person who sees through the notion that love of God
and neighbour have to go together. The person is called a liar for exposing the
truth.
Christ said that you must love your neighbour as yourself. This does not
actually say we must love ourselves. It only assumes we do love ourselves. It
does not indicate approval for loving yourself. Loving yourself is so natural
that it cannot be commanded. It is as absurd and impossible as commanding your
dog to breathe. Even those who have bad feelings towards themselves love
themselves - they just have warped self-love. The commandment implies that the
neighbour actually comes first. How? Though we cannot be commanded to love
ourselves, part of us would like to be. Also, if my self-love is warped, I am
not allowed to inflict warped love on others. In that case, the commandment
means, "If your warped love for yourself makes you want to starve yourself, give
the food to your neighbour because you want them to benefit from real healthy
love."
Such a teaching is repulsive to us. We will end up with no need for
encouragement to hate if we really take it seriously.
Suppose God and the Church find it regretful that somebody is in Hell. What they
regret is that the person abused his will. What they don't regret is that owing
to the choice he made the person is there. They hold the person deserves it. It
is foolish to warm to God and the Church when they lament the soul being in Hell
for that is not the whole story. They have found a way to celebrate it too. If I
regret the fact that the murderer of my child abused his will for his sake and
the child's, that is not only compatible with gloating over his fate which is
rotting in jail. IT IS THE REASON I CAN GLOAT!
Christians like to say they love the sinner and hate and judge only the sin.
They say they do not condemn or judge the sinner or the person but that they
leave that to God. They say that we must love sinners not by judging them but by
judging their sins. So they say that to judge a person as bad is to hate that
person. Their God is a God of hate. If they were honest they would not pretend
that judging an act as wrong or bad or without excuse is not to judge the
sinner.
They are pretending that they and their God love even the worst of sinners
unconditionally. Unconditional love means that the good person and the bad
person are loved the same. Whatever we do will not reduce the love God has for
us. It seems that no official Catholic Church document ever taught that God
loves like that (page 8, Catholic Voice, 9 May 2010). The Bible says that God
loves his servants who are faithful (1 Kings 8:23). Why didn't the author write
that God loves everybody? If he loves unconditionally then it does not matter to
his love if we are faithful or not. The Bible is trying to encourage people to
be faithful by saying that God loves the faithful. That implies he does not love
the unfaithful. In John 14:21-23, Jesus says that God loves those who obey
Jesus. These qualifiers imply that the doctrine of unconditional love is false.
Proverbs 6 says that God hates the heart that schemes. This is another way of
saying the person is hated. Zechariah 8:17 says that God hates whoever plots
evil against his neighbour and who takes false oaths. Malachi 1:3 and Romans
9:13 teach that God hates Esau. Jeremiah 16:5 has God saying he has taken his
love and his compassion away from his people. Hosea 9:15 says that God hates the
wicked of Gilgal. He says he will no longer love them. Paul says that nothing
can separate us from the love of God in Romans 8. He lists the things that
cannot separate us from God such as creatures or calmatives. Sin is not in the
list so it is simply untrue that God will keep loving us if we sin. John 15 has
Jesus saying that he will only love those who keep his commandments. He uses the
word if, the commandments are a condition. The Bible never teaches unconditional
love. The Church says that you cannot get to God unless you repent your sins.
That is a condition for having a relationship with God. The unconditional love
idea clearly implies that God has a relationship with you and if you do not
respond that relationship still exists. It;s a one way relationship.
The Christians say that if you live only for pleasure, you distort and suppress
your other instincts such as the desire to be virtuous, useful to others,
educated and so on. Thus you make yourself unhappy in the long run for you make
yourself unfulfilled over fulfilling one instinct. Clearly if this is true, then
God has set up human psychology for this to happen. I'd far rather have a God
that vindictively punished directly than one that played games like that. Why is
God so ashamed of punishing and why does he have to make it look so
self-inflicted? It has more to do with him than what the person has done to
themselves.
It’s only natural that the more you love God the more you will hate anything
that he condemns. If you love your girlfriend a lot you will despise anybody
doing anything bad to her. The more you love the perfect God the more the idea
of finding happiness in a person seems distasteful. You will end up doing good
for others not because you have any warmth for them but because God wants it.
Obviously, you have to hate others to love God and you have to hate yourself.
Admittedly, the hatred is pushed down into the subconscious but it is still
there. God commands that he must be cherished above all things which demands an
extreme hatred of people on the subconscious level and hatred of anything that
leads them away from the will of God.
An unbeliever would hate an evil action intensely. But a believer in God is
expected to hate it far more. That risks going overboard. Hating something
too much is not helpful. Belief in God adds insult to injury for a crime
against God is very serious for he is such a good being.
You can believe that you love evildoers but hate their evil but if you believe
that evil is sin which means it offends God you will naturally have to hate the
evil more and more so God increases the hatred towards sinners. Belief in God is
evil and anything that promotes belief in God is evil too.
What comes first, loving the sinner or hating the sin? Since God, being the best
being of all, comes first and commands that he be the reason we do all we do it
has to be hating the sin. But this will stupefy and strangle the love you have
for the sinner. The hatred for sin which corresponds to love for God has to
swamp any affection for the sinner and destroy it. It is just like how love can
be blind and condone evil and make you a bad judge of character. The same
principle is at work here. You have to loathe sin for God hates it infinitely so
the hatred for it has to be very intense. It follows that if you cannot love the
sinner and hate the sin then religion is incitement to hatred. Love is made into
a polite and hidden way of hating somebody’s guts. It is particularly vicious
and crafty to do that for it avoids detection. The hatred often came out when
the believers had the freedom to do to their enemies what they had always
wanted. Miracles are supposed to be signs from God that show the doctrines of a
religion are favoured. This tells us that if they happen then Satan is
responsible.
You could believe in a God who rewards but who never punishes. To believe in a
God that does punish is to believe in God out of spite. The desire is to see
people suffer for their wrongdoing because if God does not punish you can
believe whatever you want. People do find more comfort in magical items like
rose quartz crystals than God.