GOD, RELIGION AND PRIESTS ARE A WAY OF VIOLATING YOUR PRIVATE BUSINESS
The Catholic Church more than any other religion is about getting around the fact that it is not your business what the person beside you is doing. If they are lying nude in the garden and you cannot see then mind your own business.
We know we cannot tell somebody, "Don't cohabit with your partner. It is a bad idea or even a sin!" So religion gets around that by saying God said it. So when it wants to tell the person to marry instead of living with the partner it knows it cannot so it says God is the one doing the telling and it is his business for he made us out of nothing and owns us and does not consider sin good for us. What they don't tell you is that God can waive any rights to command us.
Catholicism has priests supposedly appointed by God to compel you to tell your sins to them in confession and then they use God's power to remove those sins and heal them if you are truly repentant.
The fact is that what we do is not even God's business never mind
the priest's.
Jesus said we must firstly love God with all our being and in second place our
neighbour as ourselves. When God forbids us to put anything or anyone alongside
him in our affections he really only cares about himself. That is all he made us
for. It also means that those who do not believe cannot find any satisfaction in
being helped by a Christian for that help is not given for their sake but for
God’s so it is harmful to unbelievers. So when God is like that it is none of
his business what we do and he has no right expecting us to come to him for
pardon.
What business is it of God’s if I hurt another person? This is a big problem for
the sacrament of reconciliation which plainly says it is his business and the
business of the Church officials who are invested with divine judicial
authority and the power to forgive and retain sins. Christians say God made the person and loves the person so to hurt
the person is to insult his work and his love for that person. You are abusing
the gifts God gave you so that you can hurt this person. You are insulting God.
So God is not worried about a person being hurt. He is worried about the insult
to the gifts he has given to the person so he is worried about what he has done
for the person being desecrated.
If a doctor saves the life of X and J seriously injures X does J have to express
more sorrow to the doctor than X? Of course not.
Some say God doesn’t demand an apology from you to him when you hurt a person
because the person is a person but because he loves the person. Religion claims
that God alone matters and is to be loved which proves this. It is not the
person who matters but God being offended.
The scandalous thing about this is that God is not literally offended. He is
perfectly happy and cannot change and cannot feel pain. He only intellectually
asserts that the sin should not happen but it does not harm him or make him sad.
The scandal is that something beyond pain is put before something that can
experience suffering. That is not the kind of morality we want by any standard.
We cannot deter ourselves from hurting others by telling ourselves it is wrong
for it hurts God. We cannot have the fellow-feeling for God as we do a fellow
human being. To go for forgiveness to God instead of the person you hurt is thus
evil.
It cannot be God’s business when we hurt a person simply because that person is
a person with feelings. In other words, it is not God’s concern if a person is
hurt even if it is his concern that his love and gifts for that person have been
affronted. God is not the person but the victim is the person therefore it is
the victim’s concern only. God may disapprove of the person being hurt but that
does not entitle him to be requested for his forgiveness. He is only forgiving
for the insult to himself and his gifts but he is not forgiving for hurting the
other person for that is not possible. That is between you and the other person.
To go to confession instead of pleading for forgiveness from the person you have
hurt is disgusting. If everybody knew that it was none of God’s business when we
hurt another person nobody would follow religion anymore. The doctrine of the
forgiving God who can forgive what is none of his business is dangerous for it
suggests that God’s thinking is not ours and that we should follow his whether
it makes sense or not or hurts or not.